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[@RenaissancePeriodization] What Women REALLY Want in a Physique (And How to Build It)

· 5 min read

@RenaissancePeriodization - "What Women REALLY Want in a Physique (And How to Build It)"

Link: https://youtu.be/G1cM_vuCqoI

Short Summary

Key Quotes

Okay, here are 5 direct quotes from the transcript that represent valuable insights or interesting points:

  1. "A lot of guys are like extremists. Well, I I heard you're supposed to be lean and then girls like you and you're like, 'I'm at 1% body fat, Cindy, do you love me?' That's not going to go so well because typically women that are into men are into men and then you have social skills to work on." (Highlights the point that extreme leanness can be a turn-off and that social skills are just as, if not more, important.)

  2. "And then they can use you to breed and discard you like the trash that you are, which is kind of hot. Yeah." (Humorous take on a potential evolutionary/biological underpinning.)

  3. "At 6'3, there seems to be a cresting. 6'4, 65, and 66 seem to be roughly equivalent to 63 as far as attractiveness. But once you get much beyond 66, you actually have a little bit of a freak factor." (Provides specific, actionable data on the perceived attractiveness of height.)

  4. "Most women do in fact prefer a male mating partner. That's the technical terminology. That is visually bigger than them." (Emphasis on the importance of being physically larger without necessarily knowing exact numbers).

  5. "Stated preferences, which is what women say they like, and revealed preferences, which is how they act in the world and actually select mates for mating. And revealed preferences illustrate that women just don't care on average about legs much." (Highlights the difference between what people say they want and what their behavior indicates, specifically regarding leg muscle.)

Detailed Summary

Okay, here's a detailed summary of the YouTube video transcript, broken down into bullet points:

Overall Topic: What physique do women find attractive in men? This video aims to dispel gym bro myths and provide data-backed insights based on examining hundreds of men.

Introduction:

  • The video's initial (unsuitable) title alluded to the "ideal male physique."
  • The central question: What do women actually find attractive, versus what men think women find attractive?

The Four Essentials (Plus a Bonus):

  1. Wider Shoulders and Narrower Waist (Dorito Shape):

    • This is a near-universal preference across cultures.
    • Achieved by prioritizing training:
      • Side deltoids (for width).
      • Lats (for back width and V-taper).
      • Upper pecs (for an "armor-plated" look).
    • Narrower waist is mostly genetics and body fat, not gym work.
    • Avoid excessive oblique training, but the effect is minimal anyway.
    • Waist size is primarily about calorie control (calories in vs. calories out).
    • It's mandatory for getting in that like potential for peak attractiveness kind of vibe for your shoulders to visibly be wider than your waist
    • Extreme V-tapers can be polarizing; ROI diminishes beyond a certain point.
  2. Leanness (8-15% Body Fat):

    • Not just as lean as possible.
    • Benefits of being lean:
      • Better facial aesthetics (defined cheekbones, jawline).
      • Enhanced muscle definition ("insta gains" effect).
      • Smaller waist (genetically permitted).
      • Visible abs (ravioli abs).
    • The ideal range is 8-15%:
      • "Athletic leanness" is preferred over extreme "contest shredded" look.
      • Below 6-7% can be less attractive to most women.
      • Provides the "look" without being too extreme.
    • Importance for sexual function: being too lean (under 5%) can negatively impact sex drive and erectile function ("Mr. Winky").
  3. Size Matters:

    • Women generally prefer men who are visually bigger than them.
    • Includes:
      • Height:
        • Attractiveness increases up to around 6'3".
        • Taller than 6'6" can be off-putting to some ("freak factor").
      • Weight:
        • Rough rule of thumb: ~35 lbs heavier than the woman.
        • Being significantly heavier (60+ lbs) can be less appealing to many women.
        • Muscle fetishist women like the bigger you get
        • For smaller women, 25-30lbs is fine, for bigger women, 40-50lbs is more attractive.
        • At that point it helps because you can make her feel small and dainty and very secure
  4. Bigger Arms and Forearms:

    • Not necessarily a universal obsession, but important.
    • "Thin, weak little spaghetti arms" are a negative.
    • Well-developed arms and forearms convey "masculine energy."
    • Not about having giant arms for the sake of it, but enough to make an impression, even when clothed.
  5. Bonus: Legs (Glutes > All Else):

    • Legs are generally less important to women than the other factors.
    • The exception: Avoid having "bro legs" (comically underdeveloped compared to upper body).
    • Shapely glutes are a bonus for some women, but not critical.
    • Prioritize upper body development (delts, pecs, lats) over obsessing about leg size.

Summary and Conclusion:

  • To maximize attractiveness (on average):
    • Be ~30lbs heavier than your target woman.
    • Have broader shoulders than your waist (hard rule).
    • Have visible abs.
    • Have at least decently developed arms and forearms.
  • Steroids aren't necessary to achieve the "ultimately attractive male physique" for most women.
  • After meeting the four essentials, personal preference in body type trumps additional "min/maxing."
  • Confidence is key: Confidence is more impactful than physical attributes alone.
  • Encourages viewers to share stories of their own transformations.

[@MINDMASTERYHUB-e4q] FIX YOURSELF: A Powerful Speech by DENZEL WASHINGTON

· 5 min read

@MINDMASTERYHUB-e4q - "FIX YOURSELF: A Powerful Speech by DENZEL WASHINGTON"

Link: https://youtu.be/RXfMPdGayFQ

Short Summary

To achieve your goals and live a fulfilling life, you must take full responsibility for your current situation and actively work on self-improvement. This involves setting clear goals, building resilience to overcome obstacles, prioritizing your physical and mental health, and consistently fixing yourself by confronting your demons and adopting a growth mindset.

[@hubermanlab] AMA #19: Collagen vs. Whey Protein, Creatine, Smelling Salts, Stimulants & More

· 6 min read

@hubermanlab - "AMA #19: Collagen vs. Whey Protein, Creatine, Smelling Salts, Stimulants & More"

Link: https://youtu.be/q-wRvsiGYIs

Short Summary

This Huberman Lab podcast excerpt promotes the premium subscriber channel, which supports research in mental and physical health, amplified by a 3-to-1 dollar match. The episode then explores the question of whether bone broth or collagen protein are better than whey protein for health, answering that while whey protein is better for muscle protein synthesis due to its high leucine content, bone broth and collagen protein have benefits for skin elasticity and appearance.

[David McMillan] Why You’re Not Rich When So Many Multi-Millionaires Seem Stupid

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Video Summarizer

David McMillan - "Why You’re Not Rich When So Many Multi-Millionaires Seem Stupid"

Link: https://youtu.be/G8dACAeTsV4

Short Summary

The video explores why most viewers, despite possessing intelligence and other valuable traits, aren't billionaires. It argues that becoming extremely wealthy requires a level of ruthlessness, time commitment, and perhaps luck that many are unwilling or unable to embrace, highlighting that even innovative ideas require diligent execution and exploitation to achieve billionaire status.

Key Quotes

Here are five quotes extracted from the YouTube transcript that represent valuable insights, interesting data points, surprising statements, or strong opinions:

  1. "Forecasts may tell you a great deal about the forecaster they tell you nothing about the future." (Referencing Warren Buffett, but highlighting a timeless and cynical perspective on predictions.)

  2. "Put aside the exceptional cases, most of getting rich is kind of dull, and here's the thing, you probably don't have the time or the inclination to put aside everything else for the often boring work of running a hugely profitable business." (This quote highlights the unglamorous reality of wealth creation.)

  3. "To become rich you need to apply constant ruthlessness pretend Brotherhood or sorority, but rip the heart out of your customers like a wasp feeds from a zombified caterpillar, keeping the poor victim alive yet unable to use those many many little feet from crawling away being ruthless is tiring, draining and above all utterly dull as well." (This quote expresses a cynical and perhaps controversial view on the level of ruthlessness needed for extreme wealth.)

  4. "The time of apps by themselves as a unique thing has long past and even when it peaked the winners were the people with something up and running every service has a smartphone connection now." (Highlights the need to execute ideas to make money)

  5. "AI public tools are language models or based on them so they cannot devise one for example a novel process of increasing battery efficiency and Storage by any significant degree sure it can frame sentences that have never been said before but it cannot work with information it does not have if a combination of I don't know gallium fluoride and an isotope actinium 228 have never been discussed on the web chat gbt won't talk about it either." (Talks about the limits of existing AI)

Detailed Summary

Here is a detailed summary of the YouTube video transcript, presented in bullet points:

Key Topics:

  • The Billionaires List: Discusses Forbes and Times rich lists and the people on them, highlighting the vast wealth of the top individuals.
  • Why You're Not a Billionaire: Explores the reasons why most people aren't billionaires, despite intelligence and potential.
  • Self-Help and Getting Rich: Critiques self-help advice, especially from those who haven't achieved extreme wealth themselves, while acknowledging some exceptions.
  • The Exceptional vs. the Dull: Contrasts the exciting stories of overnight successes with the reality of building wealth through persistent, often tedious work.
  • Principles of Getting Rich: Outlines fundamental, albeit somewhat cynical, principles for accumulating wealth, including identifying paying customers and avoiding using your own money.
  • Ruthlessness and Pitilessness: Addresses the importance of ruthlessness, even at the expense of ethics, in achieving extreme wealth, admitting this is something the speaker lacks.
  • The Killer App Illusion: Debunks the myth of the easy path to wealth through a single, innovative idea, citing WhatsApp as an example of a more complex, iterative process.
  • The Role of AI: Discusses the potential of AI, particularly large language models, to generate content and increase productivity, but also highlights its limitations in genuine innovation.
  • Time and Opportunity: Emphasizes the importance of timing, opportunity, and the willingness to sacrifice personal life in the pursuit of wealth.
  • Inheritance and Investment: Acknowledges the significant advantage of inheritance and its potential for growth through even modest investment.
  • Experience vs. Wealth: Poses a thought experiment comparing a large sum of money with a lifetime of memories and experiences.

Arguments and Information:

  • The video presenter suggests that most subscribers are not billionaires because, while intelligent and adventurous, they lack the ruthless dedication and focus required to accumulate extreme wealth.
  • Many self-help books on getting rich are written by people hoping to get rich by selling those books.
  • Exceptional wealth is often the result of rare opportunities and being in the right place at the right time, often fueled by a chance connection.
  • Building a hugely profitable business is often a dull and time-consuming process that most people aren't willing or able to commit to.
  • A core principle for getting rich is identifying who is able and willing to pay for your product or service.
  • Rich people often stay rich by not paying, so targeting them is not necessarily the best strategy.
  • Becoming rich often requires a level of ruthlessness that involves taking advantage of others.
  • The "killer app" dream is often a myth; successful tech ventures often involve iterative improvements on existing ideas.
  • AI tools can increase productivity, but they cannot replace human innovation and creativity.
  • AI is not fully conscious, no matter what it tells you.
  • Significant wealth often requires sacrificing personal relationships, hobbies, and well-being.
  • Inheriting a substantial amount of money, even without exceptional financial skills, greatly increases the likelihood of becoming wealthy.
  • The presenter suggests that a lifetime of experience and memories may be more valuable than a large sum of money.

[Peter Attia MD] Train Smarter, Not Harder: Understanding Central Nervous System Fatigue | Mike Israetel

· 5 min read

Peter Attia MD - "Train Smarter, Not Harder: Understanding Central Nervous System Fatigue | Mike Israetel"

Link: https://youtu.be/INcIStIWPmc

Short Summary

This video excerpt discusses the neurological factors contributing to fatigue after intense physical exertion. It explains that both the central and peripheral nervous systems experience wear and tear and substrate depletion, requiring time for repair and replenishment of neurotransmitters, impacting strength and performance; the speaker emphasizes the importance of understanding these processes for optimizing training and recovery.

[David McMillan] Letting Go: Accepting Your Life Has Suddenly Changed Forever

· 5 min read

David McMillan - "Letting Go: Accepting Your Life Has Suddenly Changed Forever"

Link: https://youtu.be/v450vB2cJ7k

Short Summary

This video describes the experience of a former smuggler who learned to recognize patterns indicating imminent danger. He emphasizes the importance of accepting these signals quickly and being willing to abandon everything to escape a trap, advising viewers to apply this principle to significant life changes, embracing ruthlessness and leaving behind anything hindering their transformation.